How to host a DIY tarot night

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Did you know you can read your own tarot — or host a friend or two to do it together? Though the experts are certainly more skilled at deep interpretation, you don't need to be a professional reader. After all, tarot isn't magic; it actually started as a card game, and today serves primarily as a tool for reflection and self-exploration. So if you've been wanting to connect with your intuition, set some new intentions or get a fresh perspective, a DIY tarot night could be just the experience you're after.

"Tarot can sometimes reveal deep and impactful truths," said tarot reader Daniel Pillai. So the key, he says, is choosing the right mix of guests — people who feel comfortable both listening and sharing. "A balanced dynamic is essential; it's not enjoyable when only a few people are willing to open up." 

To create a welcoming atmosphere, Pillai suggests dimming the lights, lighting a few candles and playing some soft spa music. Then, kick off the evening with a short meditation or some light stretches to help everyone relax and think about what questions they want to ask. 

When it's time for readings, Pillai recommends keeping it simple by using a classic Rider–Waite tarot deck: it's easy to follow and comes with a booklet that provides clear explanations of the cards. Guests can consult the guide for basic meanings but should trust their intuition too. "The first thought or feeling that arises is often the most relevant message," he said, so be sure to explore it. "This approach helps [you] avoid getting bogged down in literal interpretations and encourages a more personal, intuitive understanding."

Pillai suggests starting with a one-card pull for everyone. Begin by asking a specific question, like, "What should I focus on this month?" or "What creative project should I try next?" Then, share the reading and invite reactions. From there, you can move on to two- or three-card spreads for more in-depth readings. In a two-card spread, the cards often represent a challenge and solution, or the current energy and what's ahead. With a three-card spread, you can explore the past, present and future, or a situation, obstacle and advice. 

To close the night, consider a reflection circle, where each person gets a chance to share their biggest — and most surprising — takeaways from the evening.

"In a safe and trusted environment, the possibilities with tarot are limitless," said Pillai.