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Perth County resident out $20K after online love affair with a grifter: OPP

OPP in Perth County are once again warning those looking for love online to be wary of romance scams. It comes after a resident was bilked out of $20,000.

Police say those looking for love online should stick to 'legitimate and reputable' dating sites

OPP say scammers often set up fake websites with similar addresses to legitimate dating websites. Police say daters should check website URLs carefully to make sure they're using a reputable site. (Joe Raedle/Getty Images)

Provincial police are warning online daters to exercise a healthy dose of skepticism about would-be lovers after a Perth County resident lost $20,000 in a social media "romance scam."

Police say they were contacted on Aug. 2 by a resident who said they had met a man through social media and developed an online relationship. 

Over the course of the relationship, the suspect reported that several emergencies had happened to him and asked for money. During the last year, the suspect managed to bilk the Perth County resident out of $20,000 through several transactions.

Predators lurk on social media, police say

"Single or recently unattached people — often females — are among the growing number of vulnerable population to be victimized by criminals through fraudulent means," said OPP Const. Barry Cookson.

Scammers often establish a relationship through email blasts, social media or singles and dating websites, police say.

In certain cases, a prolonged relationship can cost victims hundreds of thousands of dollars through requests for money transfers. The relationship ends only after the culprit gets what they want, police say.

Police say online daters should never give out personal information over the phone, the internet or through social media or dating websites, and consult with a trusted friend or family member if they're asked to do so.

Dating tips from police

Scammers often set up fake dating websites that look strikingly similar to legitimate ones, police say. Online daters should check website addresses carefully to make sure they're only using legitimate and reputable platforms.

A request to send money to a foreign country is a red flag, police say. Daters should never send money or give credit card or online account details to someone they don't already know and trust.

Daters can use the internet to their advantage by using it to check an alleged suitor's name and background.

Finally, daters should be skeptical online and ask themselves whether it's normal for someone to declare their love after just a few letters or emails.

Daters can also stay on top of current scams by visiting the OPP or Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre's websites, police say.