New Brunswick

Rothesay parents support hockey-playing kids — sometimes in different cities at same time

A Rothesay family sometimes has to split themselves in half to cheer on their kids — all three play hockey on different teams.

Krista McCallum's 2 university-age children played in different cities at national competitions this week

The back of a goaltender's jersey that says "McCALLUM"
The McCallum family from Rothesay does whatever they can to have someone in the stands cheering on their kids, who all play hockey. (James West/UNB Athletics)

Krista McCallum knows what it means to be a hockey mom.

With three children in the sport, including two who play high-level university hockey, it isn't unusual for her and her husband to have to go in separate directions to cheer their kids on at tournaments.

The same thing happened this week. 

On Thursday, both her daughter, Cassie, goaltender for the University of New Brunswick Reds women's hockey team, and her son Kale, who plays defence for the UNB men's hockey team, were playing in national tournaments in different cities. 

"It's really an incredible feeling to see both of them not only pursuing their passion but doing it at this level, representing UNB on a national stage," McCallum said. 

"We're just really proud of how dedicated they are and how committed they are — on and off the ice.

"They've managed to get this far and we're going to be there to support them."

A hockey goalie in net, wearing a red, white and black UNB Reds jersey.
Cassie McCallum goaltends for the UNB Reds women's hockey team. She was in Waterloo this week for the U Sports Championships. (Fran Harris/UNB Athletics)

Cassie was attending the U Sports Women's Hockey Championship in Waterloo while her brother Kale headed to the University Cup in Ottawa.

This meant the Rothesay parents had to split their support, with McCallum going to Ottawa and her husband heading to Waterloo.

Meanwhile, their other son, Cohen, was in the playoffs with the Amherst Jr. A Ramblers, part of the Maritime Junior Hockey League. 

McCallum said the family has always been big into hockey, with her brother playing when he was younger and her husband loving the game, too. 

A man in a black and red hockey uniform prepares to take a shot on net, but a player in white tries to block him.
Kale McCallum plays defence for the UNB Reds men's hockey team. (James West/UNB Athletics)

When the kids were young, they would play hockey together, and Kale was the one who got Cassie interested in goaltending.

"Kale dressed her up with street pads on both arms and both legs, and he put a life jacket on her … and a helmet and gave her the lid of our garbage can and put her in net and started throwing balls at her," McCallum said.

To fuel the kids' love of hockey, the family had a rink in the backyard that her husband would flood at 3 a.m. every night during the winter. 

But the commitment always felt worth it to see the kids happy.

"We travelled a lot from rink to rink and definitely had fewer vacations than some of our friends … because we were always paying for hockey and hockey fees and whatever," said McCallum.

"But it was what they loved, and we loved watching them pursue something that they were so committed to."

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hannah Rudderham is a reporter with CBC New Brunswick. She grew up in Cape Breton, N.S., and moved to Fredericton in 2018. You can send story tips to hannah.rudderham@cbc.ca.

With files from Shift